我最大的缺点

我最大的缺点就是不踏实，以前碰到什么事情自己不好好想想，周围有一帮比较好的朋友，人缘还可以，就去问别人。虽然省了不少时间，但是自己也没有得到锻炼，而且每次都麻烦别人，自己也觉得不好意思。
其实有些事情，只要自己想一想，查查资料就会迎刃而解，为什么不静下心来，踏踏实实的做一件事情，即使是费了一些时间，但是自己的问题自己解决了，会有一种成就感。
我要记住，求人不如求己。自己会了真本事，才可以强大起来。
自己完成的事情自己会有一种成就感。“求”别人以来麻烦别人，二来自己学不到东西，三来养成了一种懒散的习惯，不好。
毕竟日后再学习还是工作中，主导的是自己，能独当一面，朋友，领导才会信服的。
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一定要改正这个不踏实的毛病，改了这个我相信我会是个很好的孩子。
2 j0 @) ?4 W6 N* R改了这个，我会很强大。

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this post is a copy from your sina-blog.
1 A7 i0 i/ C/ r9 [" cWhy didnot you express your ideals in English in this board?
* o8 H. u3 w! a9 L0 [5 `2 Z! d4 xYou could improve your English a lot if you get used to thinking and expressing your feelings in English. Kidcool really offered some good suggestions to follow.

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I could understand your words, but what you said sounds irresonable, I think.  In the life, we can't live without our families , friends etc. just like the fish can't survive without water. So you should change some of your ideas properly. certainly, it's not good for anyone to ask for help when they faced difficulties whichever could be overcomed by himself or not. we should try our best to learn much from the difficulties. but sometimes, we really couldn't handle them without depending on others , so help given by others is useful for us. I think we also obtain much from others when they give hands to us friendly.  So I also hope 一脉稻香 could become a strong person who is just like the superman .  Before being a superman, we should learn how to practice ourselves and make us strong .  Good luck to you !

Thanks for admin's money encouragement. [s:1]

引用第2楼kidcool于2007-04-14 16:03发表的:
1 e/ t8 n* E3 L% l( bI could understand your words, but what you said sounds irresonable, I think.  In the life, we can't live without our families , friends etc. just like the fish can't survive without water. So you should change some of your ideas properly. certainly, it's not good for anyone to ask for help when they faced difficulties whichever could be overcomed by himself or not. we should try our best to learn much from the difficulties. but sometimes, we really couldn't handle them without depending on others , so help given by others is useful for us. I think we also obtain much from others when they give hands to us friendly.  So I also hope 一脉稻香 could become a strong person who is just like the superman .  Before being a superman, we should learn how to practice ourselves and make us strong .  Good luck to you !

thank you for your suggestion

9 ?4 `, c+ S  m) t1 U2 J, t! GTo be frank, I got the same feeling now, to be exactly. Doubts, hesitations..when I went on with my postgraduate study,the feeling worsened. It is until now that I finally figured out what I learned all throgh these years helped me to grow into what I am now.
! n6 C8 ^$ F+ f! R- X: j7 Kbut thank you all the same.

helping each other [s:1] is what everyone of this forum can do, because we are exactly like the brothers and sisters in this big family.  
) Y( t" W+ ?/ xmake a big  progress  together!! [s:2]
" Z& j3 m- h! \! YI believe you can performance perfectly.

引用第5楼kidcool于2007-04-15 11:20发表的:
* l9 \% G1 k+ u4 Q( \helping each other [s:1] is what everyone of this forum can do, because we are exactly like the brothers and sisters in this big family.  
8 Y* L4 P2 B) @1 h' _2 smake a big  progress  together!! [s:2]
I believe you can performance perfectly.

haha ,i' try my best to improve myself and make the bbs more popular.
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in addition, you have to do everything well, because you are the hoster in  鹦鹉学舌 group and you are the person who we are focusing on.  all the members in this group are eager to see a superhoster 一脉稻香 here.   
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we have been the brothers in this family which is over friendship. [s:2]

引用第8楼kidcool于2007-04-15 11:30发表的:
' D! u6 {7 d9 S3 }we have been the brothers in this family which is over friendship. [s:2]

thank for your encouragement .
1 H+ f* Y) a5 r1 _6 j, ^5 }i have i good idea that you and me manage this edition together.
3 Y' H- I' C1 j; Xchina has a saying that  "darw on the wisdom of the masses".
) d6 c9 [$ c6 S5 T: Sthank you